tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post2408096107342346683..comments2023-08-07T08:26:38.304+01:00Comments on She's like the wind: Sad and emptyShe's like the windhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10075810201419237816noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-48930986437941698602008-01-21T09:19:00.000+00:002008-01-21T09:19:00.000+00:00Hi CJ, thank you so much for your continued suppor...Hi CJ, thank you so much for your continued support and your kind offer. Perhaps coincidence wasn't the right word, what I meant was 'imagine that, a significant date to both of us, there's got to be a reason behind that!' Think I just said that automatically. As I've said before I believe things happen for a reason.<BR/><BR/>I feel as though I have one stab at this letter as once it's done, it's done, I will not dwell on it, (well I might for a bit). I will do it and let the healing begin, so Dad if your out there reading this the letter is coming and I'm expecting a response!<BR/><BR/>Thanks Crystal<BR/><BR/>Windy xxShe's like the windhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10075810201419237816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-83989273501789705772008-01-20T16:06:00.000+00:002008-01-20T16:06:00.000+00:00Hi Windy, just wanted to say that (I should speak ...Hi Windy, just wanted to say that (I should speak for myself but i suspect your other readers agree) that you have lots of support on here and should you wish to email me or otherwise with your thoughts on your letter then my email is on my profile.<BR/><BR/>It is a private thing and your own opportunity to make things right, put your mind at rest and find peace, order for you to move on fully.<BR/><BR/>I really don't believe in coincidence by the way. <BR/><BR/>Crystal xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-31948497649420798852008-01-19T20:16:00.000+00:002008-01-19T20:16:00.000+00:00Hi CJ, I believe we were meant to meet that night,...Hi CJ, I believe we were meant to meet that night, it's the one and only night I have meet her, Janet moved from there shortly afterwards, although I could get in touch or pass a message on through Janet.<BR/><BR/>I so appreciate your comments and agree with everything you've said. Imagine the date being the same, what a coinsidence.<BR/><BR/>I have prepared myself for things unusual and will post the letter when I write it. I might just need a good few days to deal with it.<BR/><BR/>xxShe's like the windhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10075810201419237816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-40570618975910322722008-01-18T16:41:00.000+00:002008-01-18T16:41:00.000+00:00Whether you send the letter or not to your dad's f...Whether you send the letter or not to your dad's family, they will know about his wrong-doings once they reach him on his astral journey. Don't forget, they too will find themselves in his position and until they are able to understand the hurt and torment which once took place, they will not move on to a higher plane.<BR/><BR/>Your story is fascinating. Lorraine sounds like a great person to know and someone you should contact again once you have sent the letter. Perhaps she will give you confirmation that your dad has indeed received it. <BR/><BR/>Since embarking on his journey to find peace, he has obviously, going by Lorraine, found love again and realised his true feelings for you. Feelings which were just buried and have since re-surfaced. <BR/><BR/>I am 100% sure Lorraine and you were meant to meet that night in order for you to move forward.<BR/><BR/>The 30th August 2001 is a very significant date for me too. I also found the way forward. It was the day I made the decision to move to the farm, some five weeks after my dad's passing.<BR/><BR/>Please let us know what happens.<BR/>Love Crystal xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-70424471318989478092008-01-18T09:44:00.000+00:002008-01-18T09:44:00.000+00:00I usually always go by my instinct. My instinct t...I usually always go by my instinct. My instinct tells me not to send the letter to his family. Reconciliation, mmmm, I would not turn any of his family away, but I feel a bit abandoned and that they should be looking for me. I was the child after all. But I believe what's for you won't go passed you. So we will see what fate brings.<BR/><BR/>xxShe's like the windhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10075810201419237816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-21679349331975835902008-01-17T19:10:00.000+00:002008-01-17T19:10:00.000+00:00I am a great believer in instinct so if your's are...I am a great believer in instinct so if your's are saying trust her then do so. <BR/><BR/>As for sending the letter to his family, why not - what are they going to do, cut you off - well they've already done that. However, I do get the impression that this is all about reconciliation.......Manic Mother Of Fivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12181042998628457061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-55607907190099276972008-01-17T16:49:00.000+00:002008-01-17T16:49:00.000+00:00It wasn't the slighest bit scary that night it was...It wasn't the slighest bit scary that night it was just highly emotional for me. It was a bit creepy afterwards with the blowing on the neck thing going on. Last night after I had written the post I was filling the dishwasher, looked up and saw my son's reflection on the french doors, nearly shit myself, who's freaked out, not me LOL. I just trust Lorraine, don't know why, gut instinct, and if she says write the letter, then write the letter I will do. I've been building up to it for 6.5 years, might as well go over the last emotional hurdle.<BR/><BR/>I would like to send a copy to his sisters and my gran, if she's still alive and sane and see if they realise what we went through and what their brother/son was like. But what good would that do, absolutely none! <BR/>xxShe's like the windhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10075810201419237816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-10398591449949299882008-01-17T16:32:00.000+00:002008-01-17T16:32:00.000+00:00Bloody hell my first reaction was to be scared wit...Bloody hell my first reaction was to be scared witless and then I thought about it more and all I could come up with were positive thoughts...... Have an open mind about such matters - neither believe nor disbelieve and if your dad is wanting to "converse" I honestly believe that it can only be to try and put matters right..... All anger comes from disappointment and you are quite rightly disappointed at your dad's treatment of both you and your mum so why not write that. You have nothing to lose. That said, it seems like you have got things straight in your own mind without having to go through it all again......Manic Mother Of Fivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12181042998628457061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-55291847545600420502008-01-17T09:16:00.000+00:002008-01-17T09:16:00.000+00:00Hi Frog, it is tough and I don't feel brave, I kno...Hi Frog, it is tough and I don't feel brave, I know I'm telling the world but it's complete strangers if you know what I mean. I'm sure once I start the letter the words will flow. <BR/><BR/>I speak to lots of people who have alcoholics in their families, it's so common and sad.<BR/><BR/>You never know who's lurking at get togethers!<BR/><BR/>Nice to see you xxShe's like the windhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10075810201419237816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1839709777555132615.post-88125845482935355102008-01-16T23:05:00.000+00:002008-01-16T23:05:00.000+00:00Hmm, this is a tough one, obviously very difficult...Hmm, this is a tough one, obviously very difficult for you.<BR/>My father was an alcoholic and not a good husband or father, I can appreciate your struggling to write him a letter. <BR/>You're very brave telling the world like this, I shall watch out for ladies with strange hair-do's at drinks parties, I'd be exactly the same. <BR/>Well done, you're moving forward with life, good for you.<BR/>Frog<BR/>xFrog in the Fieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09990222544828204911noreply@blogger.com